Finding a time when everyone is free to celebrate a birthday this time of year can be a bit challenging. Collin is turning 3 soon so we had my family over tonight for a little birthday party. Collin informed me that I forgot to decorate but he didn't seem to really mind. I have to say, I was shocked at what a gracious little host he was. I don't do a whole lot of entertaining so I know he didn't pick this stuff up from me (quite frankly I don't care where he picked it up, I'm just glad he did). Anyway, he thanked all of his guests for his presents and for coming to his party, then he told them he hoped they'd had a good time! It's his
3rd birthday. Did I mention that? He thanked me for making his Thomas the Tank Engine cake and told me how cool it was. He also told us all he loved us "so much" and gave everyone big hugs. When it came time to open presents Collin was so excited he could hardly contain himself! He wanted to play with everything right away. Who could blame him? He got lots of cool stuff; a bubble maker, a Thomas the Tank Engine set, a truck, some books, moon sand, a Cars slip and slide. Of course we had to set up the train right away. The first thing Collin did was ask to read the directions. My sister handed them to him and he "read" them and said "First we need 2 cups of..." Can you tell we've been baking recently? When I asked what we needed 2 cups of he told me sugar and flour and a cup of oil and some eggs. Yep that's pretty much what goes into the Amish Friendship Bread we've been making lately. He doesn't miss a darn thing. Speaking of which, he was with me (before Christmas) when I found the Thomas set on sale. I bought it right then and there figuring he would have forgotten about it by now. Not only did he not forget, he told my mom and I on the way home all about how he was going to get his Thomas toy from the closet today. "The one with Thomas and Harold, in the closet Mom" I tried playing dumb and asked which closet and he told me "The one in your room Mom" and he knew it was not the one I keep my clothes in, but the other little storage closet we have there. I didn't even remember that the set had Harold the Helicopter in it too, but sure enough it did. He was so excited about the whole thing that he kept hugging me and telling me "This is the best birthday party I ever haded, Mom!" His reaction to his party and his cake, which I spent hours decorating, was so worth all of the work I put into it. I'll post pictures tomorrow. And just think, he gets another party at daycare next week. Could the fact that his birthday is coming up have anything to do with his exemplary behavior lately? I swear its been like invasion of the body snatchers around here in the mornings. Collin is notorious for going to bed on time but staying awake and playing until 9 or later. Since he's up no later than 5:50 he's usually a total grump in the morning. That's when you can get him to wake up enough to actually say something to you. Most days we have him dressed long before he even opens his eyes. Then he doesn't want to wear his outfit or his shoes and he doesn't want to brush his teeth and use the potty. This week though, I don't know who they replaced my kid with, but I'm keeping him as long as I can. Collin has been an honest to God pleasure to wake up in the mornings. He's pleasant, even cheerful, and cooperative. I haven't had to raise my voice or argue once in several days. Maybe this is just another one of the ways I've seen him grow and mature over the last 3 years. He never fails to make me laugh or smile and sometimes even cry because I'm just so very proud of him. I'm often struck by just how kind, caring and compassionate he can be. As much as I teach him things everyday, I learn from him as well. He sees things from a perspective that I'm often too busy to notice until he brings it to my attention. I'm trying really hard to make sure I take the time to see and do things his way (when appropriate, he doesn't always get his own way). I'm sure every Mom thinks their kid is just the greatest thing since sliced bread, and I'm no exception. Both of my boys are constant sources of amazement and joy, not to mention endless fountains of amusement.
Happy Birthday Collin! May the next year be as delightful as this one has been. I'm so proud of the fantastic little man you're turning out to be.